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My bestfriend’s a lawyer! Woohoo!

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Introducing my gorgeous RIRY… !

We’ve been bestfriend for this couple of years and we have so many happy moments and also great hardship together. We argued, we laughed, we irritates each other and we love each other so much. Our personality differs yet we crave for each other. Like coffee and tea. Both with different taste yet they shared the same flavours, sugar and milk. Without sugar and milk, it’ll be bitter.

I took pride of having her in my life. Despite her welcoming and delicious personality, wins me like a charm, she had  gone through so many achievements in life and I only had few to name among the rest of her works. She’s good in mooting, presentation skills, handling international conference, and once a leader for a competition representing Malaysia. She won the best memorial in Oxford University, London for an International Moot Competition and she was the last one who managed to bring that title to Malaysia.

And this post is dedicated for her. After 9 months going through Chambering (when you graduate, you can work in other fields but you can’t be an official lawyer until you finished a 9 months chambering), her sweat paid off. My bestfriend is finally called to the bar. In other words, she is officially a lawyer now. How awesome is that? I am like a proud mother.

I’ll let the pictures speak.

 

Riry and her awesome lawyer bosses! And yes, she’s the only woman in the company – in Kuala Lumpur Federal Court, Malaysia.

 

Our intimate celebration for her big day! – In Plan B, Publika Solaris Dutamas.

 

With Ainaa Lutfiah. She’s also a lawyer working in Attorney General Chambers for Malaysian Government under International Relation.

 

After all day taking her photos, of course i had to be in the picture too! 😛

 

She has made it this far and she has so many more in her. I do know when she’s on the top of the world, I’ll be here waving at her with the biggest smile on my face.

 

CONGRATS RIRY!

 

 

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May 15, 2012 at 11:16 pm

What incurable desease can do.

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Today has been a hard day.

I have someone, who’s been in my heart for a long time. We rarely talk, we rarely seen each other, and we rarely contact. But he’s there, among all the fuss and dates with other guys, he’s always been there.

It’s sad, that we could not proceed, even long before. Just because our responsibilities differs.

Today,  i have received his text.

Actually i’ve been meaning to tell you that i’m moving back to JB. I’ve quit my job at my firm and will be in jb taking care of my sick sister. I am coming back to KL to take my things and move out of my apartment. Just fyi.

 

I replied: Okay.

I cried my heart out. I really didn’t know what to do and how to answer. I know it took him quite some time to have the courage to tell me that. We rarely meet even though we were 15 minutes away. What more, 5 hours apart. But I’ve told myself, be strong. God must have His reason to let us depart from each other. His sister need her, more than I do. Perhaps it will be good for me too. A permanent distant would let two of us recover. Perhaps the sister need him, perhaps he need his sister, and perhaps I too need this distance.

 

After a few hours, I choose to text him back.

I know you did what’s best for you and i’m proud of your decision. I’m sorry, for not being there when you need me the most. I’m sorry, for not being able to shelter your emotion. I wish I could, if you let me. I’m sorry I’m not the one. Meet me before you go back. I have something for your sister. I’ve been keeping it for a long time.

 

I bought myself a Coach handbag previously. But i’ve never got the chance to use it. Since last year, I told myself perhaps I should give it to her sister. Now, it is definitely the right time.

We’ve been struggling. He’s the eldest in his family, and her sister is struggling with a disease where one day, she couldn’t write, move or talk. She’s a handicap now. The life would be shorten too.

And I, struggling with my sick father who has been diagnosed with Parkinson early last year. It’s been a year, that I’ve slowly seen my father’s becoming more weaker. From a man who could drive for 8 hours before, the siblings and I took the responsibility of the driving now.

My love life is unfortunate for now. Half way through, I know we couldn’t make it. Sometime, we need to sacrifice for more important people, our family. But I believe the love will come again. Perhaps not with him, but with others.

 

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May 1, 2012 at 10:04 pm